Thursday, February 05, 2009

Part 3: Life at Home

My brother went by my Grandma's house on his way home from work on Friday to borrow a few things that helped her after her hip surgery. Seriously, did I ever think I'd be sharing surgical gear (ie. a walker, a potty chair, a pants puller-upper, an extra long shoe horn, and many other cool gadgets) with my Grandma?! How humiliating! But thank goodness she had it all, or I would've spent way too much money. When I left the hospital on Friday, I was already feeling better, but on Saturday morning when my mom washed my hair and I actually put on makeup, I felt like a brand new person! My dad left to go home on Saturday, but not until he had cleaned my entire house top to bottom. I am SO grateful he did that because I am too OCD to live with a messy house, but I sure couldn't do anything about it. My mom reorganized things to make my clothes more accessible. And she cleaned out my fridge to make room for all of the food people would be bringing. I could not have gotten through this without my parents. They were amazing! Brad & Kendall were also a huge help. They kept me from freaking out before the surgery, and they kept me company afterwards. I'm so thankful to have them. On Sunday evening, during the Super Bowl, Ryan finally got home. Praise the Lord! I was so excited to see him, but I couldn't exactly run up and hug him the way I wanted to. Since my folks left, he picked right up where they left off and has done a great job of playing "nurse" to me. I hate feeling helpless, but I'm having to get used to it.

My leg is supposed to be elevated at least 80% of my day, so I use the other 20% to get ready in the mornings and get up and "crutch" around to keep my sanity. I can't even rest my foot on the ground without it hurting, so I'm really having to put all klutziness (is that a word?) aside. Every day seems to be progress, but it's amazing how many adaptations I'm having to make. When I first got home, my mom and dad got me settled into a recliner in the living room, and I thought I'd never get out. By the time Ryan got home on Sunday evening, I was already getting more independent. Now, I can get into the recliner by myself, but I just need some help getting out. I also thought I wouldn't be able to sleep in my own bed because it's so tall, but now I can get in and out of bed all by myself. It's also nice that I don't have to have anyone accompany me to the restroom... privacy is one of life's little joys that I'll never take for granted again. I'm occasionally humbled when I can't get my pants on, or I drop something I can't pick up, and we usually just die laughing at how awkward I am. It's so ridiculous to need help for such little tasks!! I'm still at Ryan's mercy to wash my hair, and I have to say he may just have a future in hairstyling. Between the kitchen sink sprayer, a stool, another chair to prop my leg up on, and lots of towels for the water we manage to get everywhere, we've mastered the art of Hairwashing 101. I'm sure it's a hilarious sight to see.

Anyway, I also just have to say thanks to everyone for checking in on me, whether it's been by paying a visit, bringing food, calling, sending cards, or just commenting on this blog. It means a lot to know how many people are praying for my recovery. I go to the Dr. this coming Monday, and I'm praying for good news...and maybe some type of walking cast?!? I'm still out of work for at least another week, but I'm doing some small things from home just to keep busy and feel productive. Thank goodness for a flexible job and wonderful co-workers who are picking up my slack. I'm very, very blessed.

11 comments:

Laura said...

I am catching up on blogs and omg, so sorry friend! you are so brave! AHHH, you poor thing. Made my hands sweat reading about the fall. Keeping you in our prayers!

Natalie said...

We've been thinking about you and praying since we heard. So glad that Ryan's home now and that you have awesome family and friends taking care of you!

Finally an Abrigg..... said...

remember that time when leigh ann washed all of our hair at my house our junior year? maybe it was our senior year. either way, ryan washing your hair made of think of it! :) see you on saturday!

Jodi said...

Oh, Sarah! I'm so sorry to read about your accident. I'm glad you are home and hope you recover quickly!

B-DUB said...

we wildner ladies have been keeping up with you via your blog and your mom. i'm so glad ryan is home and that you are feeling good enough to laugh about things. keep your spirits and your leg up!

campers said...

yeah it was our junior year...so funny! I remember that too...we were dorks!!!

Justin and Rachel Smith said...

Now you know what it feels like to be pregnant! Just kidding! :) Although, there are some things that don't ring a bell, there are several things that I drop and can't pick up! I'm praying for your upcoming doctor visit; please post about it!

Emily said...

oh my GOSH! what a story! i'm so glad you're on the mend, but it does not sound fun!

kristin fulghum said...

oh, so glad you have such great people taking care of you. feel better soon and enjoy some sitting around and relaxing time!

The Skains Family said...

Sounds like childbirth will be no big deal for you one day!

Sunni at The Flying Mum said...

Oh, man. I feel your pain. I broke my ankle in middle school and had to have surgery. It wasn't as bad as your's, but it was so painful, and so hard to get used to life with crutches!

I'm so glad you're done with surgery and on your way to being all better again!